Well you have to take an active role in your love life. You can't expect to find your one true love unless you put yourself out there for her to find you. I know it can be lonely, but you're young. You should concentrate on work and school. Don't be in such a hurry, you have plenty of time. I was 26 when I met my wife, and I was engaged twice before that. So don't get discouraged. Love is patient.Is it true that your true love will come to you when it is time ?
True love will come to you when it's time, but all the same you cannot just sit around and do nothing (meaning that you need to get out there and let yourself be known. Your true love isn't going to find you if you hide out) It's going to take time, effort, kindness, and many other things. There's much more to it then it just showing up.
Most women are afraid to approach someone that they like, let alone ask them out so your best bet is to ask them out yourself. Getting to know the person first helps as well.
The first person you date is most likely not going to be the person that you spend the rest of your life with, so if it doesn't work out don't fret! It might be a rough start, but if it means that much to you then don't give up.
Dress well, be a gentleman, and the girls will fall for you. Go to places where you're likely to meet girls - coffee shops, dance classes, even libraries. Start with small talk, then suggest coffee or a movie if things are going well.
The right person will come along. At least I hope so, since I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. I've dated a handful of guys, but none that I could imagine myself in the future with. I'm the sort to want a long relationship, not a party hook up (signs I've read far too many fairy-tale romance books like Twilight, haha). I think I would prefer to wait for the right one than flit around between guys like they're expendable. For now, I'm enjoying single life, but it would be nice to have someone else provided they were the right one, not just a convenient fling.
It is true. And it is because you are looking for them. My explanation: if you are looking for a girlfriend, it shows signs of desperation and lack of confidence, it is a definate mood killer if that is the only thing that is stopping you from finding ';the one';. The reason many people say to just let it happen is just not to worry. If you don't have it on your mind, you won't have that ';desperate'; aura hanging around you all of the time. However, if you are confident, girls will see you as a pleasant person to be with, someone with who to share those feelings. Just let it happen, you can't force these kinds of things anyways.
I think love will find you when it is time for you to have love in your life. I believe some people are ready for true love at a young age, while others are not ready until they are older. I think this happens to a lot ot people, two of my best friends haven't had a boyfriend or first kiss and we will all be seniors next year. I have been dating this wonderful guy for 15 months, we meant when we were freshman. We both liked each other secretly for a year, and we were really good friends. Then one day he randomly decided to break up with his current girlfriend and decided to ask me out in our history class when we were sophomores. Long story short, I wasn't expecting this relationship to even start, or last. I always thought, oh were too good of friends to have a romantic relationship, but I was completely wrong.
I think your true love will come to you. Just be patient. It'll be worth it :)
First, this is your best answer: Yes, it will come to you , don't be worried. Dating is about finding out what you want and dont want, what you like and dont like in the other person. Dating gives us the expeereince of tiral and error, to learn from our mistakes, to find out what we are good at and not good at in a realtionship. Like if you have a hard time communicating, talking about your feelings, saying whats on your mind, etc. you need to work on these skills to be succesful in a relationship. However there is no time table even though we are falsely lead to believe there is. Life has different paths for all of us. Go to collage, get a job, do what ever like has next for you. Eventually you will find that when the time is right dating will start having a place in your life. In the mean time, know that most girls, like men who have a persoanlity, are smart, can make them laugh, know how to listen, know how to set their priorities, and have ambition. work on those while your waiting....
you wont spend you whole life alone..see the thing is your looking,,and wanting a girlfriend,,i mean who wouldnt want sumone,,but when you look for someone most of the time you get what you don;t want,,and if you jus sit back and let it happen then you will get what you want,,let love come to you and you wont be dissiponted,,and jus live your life right now go out with your friends have fun,,and dont try and think about love coming to you it will come when you least expect it.
I think you will know when you find the right person. I don't think that she will drop out of the sky or ring your doorbell. Get out there and make yourself available. Get into some school activities where you would be likely to meet someone. Ask some girls out. Go out and enjoy yourself you don't have to be lonely. Do stuff go places meet people. You never know who you will meet when you take a chance.
Don't waste your time worrying.
you are young, enjoy it while you can. True love is hard to find. It will come but you have to keep your eyes and heart open. But watch out, lots of users in this world. Don't be in a rush, make friends and just enjoy life for now. One day you will remember this!
I would like to think that your true love will come to you, but sometimes you have to help it along a bit. Don't give up. Go to places where you might meet someone - join some clubs that interest you - or take a cooking class. There are plenty of places to meet the right woman - you just haven't found it yet. Good Luck :)
if the right person will come alone is true then shouldn't every1 be happy and be married already? there is no such thing as the right person. the right person is whoever u want it to be. you''ll just have to go meet people. don't approach them with an intention of making them your gf. be friends and then when the time comes you'll know in yourself that you want that person.
you dont neccasarily need to wait for the most perfect person ever, they may come, and you may never meet them. if you see a girl you like talk to her, you have to do some work. you cant just expect it to come to you
although ive been blessed with actually finding my true love!
all the best to you dont worry youll be fineeee
When love is meant to, it happens. At the same time you must live. Enjoy the conversation, the interaction, the beauty of it all.
But it will happen. When you search for her...that one...don't focus so much on if she's the one. Focus on your time together and the love will come...
I think that you are doing what every single teenager does. Of course you are out there looking for someone. How else are you going to meet people and find true love? As long as you don't come across too strong and desperate and just be yourself, then enjoy the ride and what will be will be.
There is no doubt about it.
You seem to believe that there is God out there keeping track of things.
If that is the case then I would suggest you test dreams. And I didn't had any till 21 or so and then only by chance I found her and since then it is literally a dream that came true.
Here is how to test dreams, small read and very simple.
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Yes, you cant look for love, it finds you.
I have been in love once, i was not looking for it. I was not expecting it, and it just came.
Just be yourself and enjoy life.
Dont look at it as being lonley, look at it as if getting to know more people.
Your time will come
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i believe that if you're meant to be withs someone it'll happen. and even if you miss the first time you saw them and you didn't create that moment...if you're meant to be together you'll see each other again. i believe that if it's meant to happen it will
just enjoy life...she'll come
you'll find someone when you find someone. you need to open your eyes a pinch though. just start to talk to girls and if you like them then ask them out if not then friends are GREAT! LOVE will happen when it happens but crushes will happen a lot more often so try to meet more people and date
aw you poor fella. in all honesty, yes true love will happen wehn you least expect it. so take this time and go to college, get your career going. establish yourself, and then when your love comes into your life, everything will be perfect.
the population of girls and boys is not perfectly equal, therefore that cannot be true. Things happen because of the decisions people make, not because of some god or greater force guiding you to your true love
19 is a little late but you can still make up for it in college. Whats that? You're not in college? Get your butt there if you want a girl or girls in your life.
be patient, your young. Work on a degree, lift some weights. In time you will see that you will find someone special. I'm 33 and i have dated quite a bit in the past but still haven't found my ';true'; love.
Sounds like you're probably going to be alone for your entire life. After 19 if you have no girlfriends, you better try guys.
You are still young , pray and the right girl will come to you , or you might just find her you still have some years left.
Don't sweat it man. Love will also kick you in the nuts when you least expect it.
well.
yah.
buh yuh qottah puh sum effort into iot also.
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It is true, you will find ger when you least expect it.
Yes, when the right person comes, it will happen.
No, you need to stare at girls a lot and follow them places.
If you are a Christian, God will provide you the right mate in due time.
dont worry about true love, just go and have some fun.
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